Random thoughts and rambilings of a woman finally growing up
Thursday, July 8, 2010
I am having hostel frustration. The place I am staying at in Nice, Villa Saint Exupery, is one of the top rated hostels in the world. I can see why, the grounds are lovely, a great bar, and delighful meals for very cheap prices. I feel very lucky that I have one of the air conditioned rooms because many are not and the heat here is almost unbearable.
I've met some really wonderful people: Nick my beach partner from Toronto, Andes and his family from Sydney, and Thormud a 76 year-old backpacker from Melborne.
Since I am here for six days I am trying to make a socialogical study of the comings and goings of the backpackers in my nine bed dorm room. Some have snuck in in the middle of the night only to be gone before daylight. It is like they are on a secret mission.
Then there's Pierre from Quebec City...I cannot remember his real name, but he speaks with a slight French accent. His bunk is above mine. He has bags of food all over and has decided that our two beds are his personal clothes line for drying his laundry. I woke up to a curtain of laundry blocking my view. Glad I am not claustrophobic.
Others, like Chris, from NYC, sleeps all day and rises around happy hour time. He then proceeds to drink himself into oblivion and pick up whatever unsuspecting 21 year-old he can find. I'm wondering if this is working for him?
I really don't want to sound like this old lady complaining about, "those damn kids," because they all have a story and I find them all facinating. I just don't think getting as drunk as humanly possible each night is how I want to spend my trip. I'm not judging, it is just not my bag.
The door doesn't really lock in my room, and even if it did none of my roommates seem to care about locking things up. I'm sure they think I am ultra paranoid because I lock up both backpack and suitcase, and lock the suitcase to the bedpost.
Today I came back from visiting Aux en Provence and I look down and I see a few pairs of men's underwear. One of my roommate's I presume. I must admit I did try and look to see if they were dirty or clean...gross I know...they were dirty. I wanted to take a picture, but people started coming home...I'm sure they would've thought it odd. I think it is odd that someone leaves their dirty underwear lying around a hostel floor.
I've developed this awful cough over the last couple days. I'm thinking I am allergic to something in the air or in the room, and it is quite annoying...for both me and my roommates. It sucks because I wake up in the middle of the night coughing like crazy and cannot seem to stop. Matthew from Toronto gave me some cough drops which help somewhat. I'm sure my roommates are sharing my lack of sleep because of this...sorry guys, the last thing I want to do is contribute to your sleep depervation.
Last night on the phone with my guy back home I tried to explain my frustation. I was weepy from lack of sleep and the relentless cough. I know he cares and wants to help, but this is something I have to figure out on my own. Part of me having a life out here that is only mine.
Having an assortment of roommates will be part of this trip there are no two ways about it. It just is, and like everything else when I come to peace with it things will be easier. Running away and laying down my credit card for a hotel room is, in my opinion, a puss way out, and not part of the life I want to experience out here. Days are coming where I will have my own room and they will be doubly sweet....